I’m kneeling in one of my own bedroom closets—peering E.T.-like through the white door slats—when the following epiphany hits me harder than a lawn dart to the eye: I am a disgraceful woman.
Gloria Steinem would call me whatever’s the feminist equivalent of an Uncle Tom.
An Aunt Jemima?
Why does that sound like such an awfully racist statement? It’s a mixed metaphor of some sort, certainly. But is it racist?
I’m so depressed and angry that I can’t even figure out why it might be racist, let alone think up a politically correct metaphor for being an atrocious feminist.
I once read that Gloria Steinem had worked as a Playboy Bunny in an effort to expose the sexism of the job. Regardless of her motivation she was indeed a Playboy Bunny, letting men view her as a sexual object.
Gloria probably even got off on it, if only secretly.
I mean, politics aside, we all want to be desired—even lusted after—deep down, if we’re being honest.
And maybe if Gloria Steinem let men ogle her and pinch her ass before she rose up to be the spokesperson for an entire gender, well then, maybe, just maybe, that means I too can transcend hiding in my own closet—literally—and once again become a respectable woman who young, intelligent girls will look up to and maybe even choose to emulate.
What was that old saying?
The truth will set you free.
But first it will piss you off.
Gloria Steinem said that, I’m pretty sure.
I remember reading all about Ms. Steinem in my Gender and Prejudice college course, back when I was a good—albeit untested—feminist.
Being a feminist is so easy when you’re a college freshman with enough scholarship money and financial aid to cover tuition, room, and board. A woman with a clean slate. Compromises come with age.
Someone’s going to quote me someday, when I’m once again saying intelligent empowering things, like I used to a long, long time ago in a size-four body.
“That’s right, Portia Kane,” I say to myself in the closet, with a Louis Vuitton stiletto heel stabbing the meat of my left ass cheek. I lean my weight—135 pounds, which isn’t all that bad for a relatively tall forty-year-old woman—into the four-inch spike like a medieval priest punishing his lust-driven flesh. “Get pissed off! Because you’re about to see the truth. Ouch!”
I ease up on the Louis Vuitton heel.
I’m really not all that tough.
But I can change.
I can be the woman I always wanted to be.
Somehow.
Right now, I don’t even think the sluttiest teens in today’s most godforsaken high schools, girls giving it up for nothing more than, say, a meal at Burger King—onion rings and a Whopper, maybe a chocolate milkshake if they’re good negotiators—not even those Burger King hoochies would sympathize with my current position, let alone look up to yours truly.
I should probably declare that I’ve been drinking.
A lot.
Hennessy Paradis Imperial.
A $2,000-plus bottle.
Ken was saving it for a special occasion—like maybe when he finally hits a hole in one.
His “lifelong dream.” To put a ball in a hole with one swing of a club. What ambition! Ken is a caveman.